DATING AND LOVE

ELLA DATING GUIDE
IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION FOR DATING AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE
ELearning Dating Guide.pdf
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QUESTION [?] WHAT IS A DATE?

ANSWER:

 

  • WHEN TWO PEOPLE MEET, GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING TOGETHER.

 

  • AFTER A DATE YOU CAN DECIDE IF YOU LIKE THE PERSON AND IF YOU WANT HIM/HER TO BE YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND OR NOT

 

[?] WHERE CAN YOU FIND SOMEONE TO GO ON A DATE WITH?

ANSWERS:

 

AT YOUR DAY CARE CENTRE

 

 

 

IN A CAFETARIA

 

 

 

ON DATING WEBSITES IN THE INTERNET

 

 

 

ON FACEBOOK OR

SOCIAL MEDIA

 

 

AT A PARTY, CONCERT OR FESTIVAL

 

 

IN A DISCO

 

 

ON TV ADVERTISEMENTS

 

 

DATING SECTION IN A NEWSPAPER

 

 

[?] HOW DO YOU MEET SOMEONE WHEN YOU ARE THERE?

ANSWERS:

WHEN YOU START A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE ON THE STREET, IN A CAFE OR AT A PARTY

 

 

WHEN SOMEONE STARTS A CONVERSATION WITH YOU ON THE STREET, IN A CAFE OR AT A PARTY

 

YOUR FRIENDS INTRODUCE YOU TO A NICE PERSON THEY KNOW

 

 

[?] ASK YOURSELF: WHAT KIND OF PERSON WOULD YOU LIKE TO DATE?

PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE?

PRETTY | HANDSOME?

VERY FRIENDLY AND HELPFUL?

 

 

VERY RICH OR FAMOUS?

 

 

YOUNGER THAN YOU?

 

 

THE SAME AGE AS YOU?

 

 

OLDER THAN YOU?

 

 

¶ HERE'S OUR ADVICE:

 

CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO IS ABOUT THE SAME AGE AND HAS THE SAME SOCIAL STATUS. MAYBE SOMEONE WHO DOES THE SAME JOB AS YOU OR GOES TO THE SAME PLACES.

 

[?] HOW CAN YOU ASK SOMEONE ON A DATE?

ANSWERS:

SENDING A TEXT MESSAGE OR CALLING ON THE PHONE

 

 

WRITING AN EMAIL OR MESSAGE VIA THE INTERNET

 

 

ASKING SOMEONE IN PERSON

 

 

¶ HERE'S OUR ADVICE:

  • ALWAYS BE POLITE. SAY HELLO AND GOOD BYE.
  • OFFER A HUG OR MAYBE A KISS.
  • ASK FOR ANOTHER DATE.

 

 

  • FIND AN APPROPRIATE TIME AND DATE.
  • CONSIDER HOW LONG THE DATE WITH BE.

 

 

[?] WHEN AND WHERE SHOULD YOU PLAN YOUR DATE?

ANSWERS:

  • PLAN YOUR DATE IN A PUBLIC PLACE
  • A PLACE YOU KNOW WELL
  • AND DURING THE DAY

 

 

  • LIKE IN A CAFE, BAR OR RESTAURANT
  • OR A CULTURAL EVENT LIKE AN EXHIBITION
  • OR GOING TO THE CINEMA OR BOWLING

 

 

[!] ATTENTION!

DON'T GO ON A DATE WHEN IT IS DARK OR LATE AT NIGHT

 

 

DON'T TAKE A STRANGER HOME OR GIVE THEM YOUR ADDRESS

 

 

DON'T GET INTO A STRANGERS CAR OR INTO A CAR WITH STRANGERS IN IT

 

NEVER GIVE A STRANGER YOUR HOUSE KEYS

 

 

NEVER DRINK ALCOHOL WITH STRANGERS

 

 

NEVER GIVE PERSONAL INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR FAMILY TO STANGERS

 

 

NEVER LEAVE YOUR DRINK UNATTENDED

 

 

 

NEVER GIVE YOUR BANK OR CREDIT CARD INFORMATION TO A STRANGER

 

 

¶ MORE SAFETY ADVICE:

 

ALWAYS TELL SOMEONE BEFORE YOU GO ON A DATE:

  • WHERE YOU ARE GOING

 

 

  • WHO YOU ARE MEETING WITH

 

  • WHEN AND HOW YOU ARE COMING HOME

 

 

MAKE SURE YOUR CELLPHONE IS CHARGED AND WITH YOU AT ALL TIMES

 

 

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IF YOU NEED HELP. THE HELP LINE FOR THE POLICE IS THE SAME IN ALL OF EUROPE

 

 

ALWAYS HAVE ENOUGH MONEY WITH YOU, MAYBE ENOUGH FOR A TAXI HOME

 

 

CREATE A SECRET CODE WITH A FRIEND OR CAREGIVER FOR WHEN YOU ARE SCARED

 

 

MAKE SURE YOU KNOW HOW TO GET HOME BY PUBLIC TRANSPORT

 

 

IF YOU DON'T LIKE HOW SOMEONE TOUCHES YOU, SAY NO AND GO HOME

 

 

IF YOU NEED OR WANT TO TALK ABOUT YOUR DATE, YOU CAN ALWAYS CALL A SOCIAL WORKER AT THE DAY CARE CENTRE, THEY ARE ALWYS HAPPY TO HELP.

 

 

IF YOU NEED ADVICE ON SEX AND CONTRACEPTION, YOU CAN ALSO CALL YOUR SOCIAL WORKER, WHO IS ALWAYS HAPPY TO HELP.

 

 

DOUBLE DATES ARE SAFER. TRY ASKING A FRIEND IF SHE WILL GO ON A DOUBLE DATE WITH YOU AND HER BOYFRIEND

 

 

[!] ATTENTION!

ALWAYS BE SUPER CAUTIOUS MEETING PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW.

 

 

TRY TO MAKE A PHOTO OF YOURSELF WITH YOUR NEW FRIEND, IF THEY REFUSE, YOU PROBABLY CAN'T TRUST THEM AND SHOULD GO HOME.

 

 

COURTESY OF THE LILLIPUT THEATRE, PLAYHOUSE DERRY

"INTIMACY"

 

 

 

"LOVE"

 

 

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